




Finally, the big day arrived. The day we have all been waiting for since I first signed her up for dance class...yes, the recital. Unbeknownst to me, dance recitals are serious stuff. I should have been tipped off when they announced in January that they were starting to work on their dance at every class from then until the recital in June. Or, maybe when it got a little closer and we got the costumes and were told which specific tights they had to wear, or how their hair had to be parted on the left and in a bun in the back. (Excuse me! Has anyone seen my daughter's head of hair??!!) Or how they had to wear pink blush and red lipstick so they would show up while on stage. (Excuse me again. Has anyone tried putting red lipstick on their 3 year old and then had them not get it all over everything--like their costume!!)
I should actually back up a minute, because before we even got to the recital day, we had dress rehearsal at the studio. Then the next week, we got all dressed up again to do formal pictures with a photographer. Still yet, we had the actual rehearsal at Hancher auditorium 2 days before the performance. My friend Christi and I decided to be the "backstage moms" for our group. (Mostly because no one else volunteered) On the day of the rehearsal it wasn't too bad because all if the other moms were their, too. However, the day of the big show, we were on our own. Trying to keep fourteen 3 & 4 year olds entertained for an hour and a half (in full makeup and costume no less) proved to be exhausting. We tried coloring, simon says, and singing songs but it was only a matter of time before they were running around at full speed trying to burn off their cooped up energy. Never mind the potty breaks that required disrobing of all costume gear!
After a never ending eternity, they called our group to line up. Yipee!! I was impressed how the girls got down to business. We got them all lined up in correct order, and they very diligently put their hands on the shoulders of the person in front of them as we had practiced before. They walked quietly down the hall, through the big doors to their place backstage, and were ready to dance. They did a fabulous job and were so proud of themselves (and rightly so!) for a job well done. They really got a kick out of the clapping afterwards. Being that it was too dark to see the audience, Maddi's first comment was, "Mom! Uncle Matt wasn't there!" I reassured her he was and that she would get to see him after the show was over.
So there it was, 2 hours of preparation for 2 minutes of stage time.
When we finally made our way outside, everyone was waiting for Maddi and brother Lars and Aunt Diana were holding some flowers for her. Lars was so excited to give them to her and even told her she did a good job. She was beaming. Looking back, Maddi had a great time, (and so did mom)!